I have been blogging for well over 10 years, but I don’t think I’ve ever blogged the words “I LOVE MY HUSBAND”. Even when I was happy with my ex and we lived as a married couple, it wasn’t the same.
But here I am, MARRIED and loving my husband. Sure, it’s only been a couple of months, and sure, we live 2000 miles apart, but still! I love the fact that he GETS me. He doesn’t roll his eyes when I call him with that catch in my voice that lets him know I’m ready to cry. He talks me down when I get upset about the upcoming trial. He laughs with me, cries with me, teases me, treats me with RESPECT. We’re equals.
Conversely, I also talk him down when he starts to get overwhelmed by bills or business. We balance each other out in a way I’ve never experienced before. With him, I’m “ENOUGH”.
As usual with me, though, I will hedge this by saying “right now”. I might not be “ENOUGH” for him when we actually share a home, a life, a business, a family. But it’s a good start.